Stefan Willoughby
I’ve been training Iaido at Newcastle Aikido since September 2025 (so training for three months as I write this), and I came in as a complete beginner. I’d tried a beginner’s class elsewhere about ten years ago and walked away because it felt pretty unfriendly, so I was very nervous turning up this time. That nervousness disappeared fast. My first class was excellent. Sensei Darius made it clear straight away that the hardest part of training is simply turning up, and honestly, he was spot on. Everyone was welcoming, friendly, and after class we stood around chatting like normal humans. I was encouraged to come back, and it genuinely felt meant. The teaching strikes a great balance between respect, ceremony, and approachability. Etiquette and tradition matter, but Sensei will also drop the occasional dry joke or quip, which keeps things grounded. Corrections are clear, thoughtful, always constructive and never ego-driven. The dojo itself is small but has a fantastic atmosphere. No macho nonsense, no weird vibes, just people who love the art and want others to enjoy it too. It feels like a real community. The thing I love most is the calm. Once I’m on the mat in seiza, everything else switches off. That alone keeps me coming back.






